Husband about to deploy, about to have baby---texting another girl?

Sometimes guys do stupid crap! Does it make it right? Hell no! I totally understand how it feels to have someone who you never thought would hurt you, do that to you. Yes ok the pics weren't sexual but the whole thing was inappropriate and shouldn't have happened in the first place. It will take you a while to get over this and the only way you can get over this fully is if he proves he can be trusted again. He has to realize he has broken your trust and it will take time to earn it back. Earning it back will mean you have access to his emails and social networking passwords etc. In a marriage there is no privacy, your partner should have access to everything to see whenever they want and vice versa. If over time you can see he isn't doing anything and is dedicated to righting his wrongs then you will start rebuilding trust again and these hurt feelings will slowly go. I hope that helps.